When a Child Discloses Abuse:

 

• Remain calm. Do not express shock, panic, or disbelief.

 

• Do not interview the child.

 

• Do listen. Ask just enough questions to know how to protect your child.

 

• Reassure the child they have done the right thing by telling you.

 

• Make the child feel safe.

 

• If you get upset, your child will get upset.

 

• Do not make promises you cannot keep.

 

• Do not promise a child you will not tell.

 

• Explain to the child that you need to make sure they are alright and are safe.

 

• Contact One Place of the Shoals / the county Department of Human Resources (DHR) where the child lives. You can remain anonymous.

 

• Do not contact the abuser.

 

• If this is an emergency, call 911.